Social media has become a part of our daily life and many of us cannot do without it. What you don’t know is that your addiction to social media is affecting your lives negatively. Read on to know how social media can ruin your life.
Some persons while interacting or chatting with someone, and they share an emoticon; they begin to give all sorts of meanings and interpretations to it. It is funny that just because of an emoticon, they get themselves all worked up and worried. Why? It is just an emoticon.
Checking/updating every second
You have become so attached to Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat that you are checking and updating them every second. The day you don’t access your accounts because you don’t have data, you become hysterical and irrational. It is not a matter of life and death.
Bragging about likes, followers and comments
The number of likes, followers and comments you have has become a thing to brag about and show off. The rule is that the more followers you have, the more traction and engagement you get. True, you do not have to boast about it. Some people go as far as buying likes, followers and even comments.
Posting without thinking
Many of us have converted social media to an abuse platform. A place where we criticize and troll people. As a result, more and more people are in trouble because of what they shared and said on social media. Presently, a popular US based Nigerian journalist Kemi Olunloyo is being charged to court because of the content she shared on social media. Always, think before you share.
Making up just because you want to share pix on Instagram
This is peculiar with girls. They do not have anywhere to go but they dress up, apply makeup and take beautiful pictures just to post on Instagram or Facebook. It is ridiculous.
Staying Up Late
We all do this. We spend hours flying from one social media platform to another. Meanwhile, we are very sleepy but we still continue browsing. Surprisingly, they sleep off while on twitter or WhatsApp. Hence, many of us don’t get enough sleep because of social media.
Seeking social media validation
Seeking social media validation can lead to depression. This is because you wait for others to give you approval for your life activities. If you don’t get the desired response, you become depressed. You should stop seeking social media validation and live your life.
VIDEO: There Will Be A Lot Of Babies As A Result Of This Lockdown — Pastor Adeboye
Pastor Enoch Adeboye of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), says lots of babies will be made as a result of the COVID-19 lockdown.
The clergyman said this in his sermon on Sunday morning while listing some of the good things that will come out from the COVID-19 lockdown. According to him, Pastors will be so busy early next year conducting baby naming ceremonies.
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Anambra Community Banishes 75-Year-Old Man, Wife, Son Over Alleged Sale Of Drugs
A 75-year-old man, Mr Reuben Onwuegbunem from Orebe village, Amansea in Awka North Local government area of Anambra state has called on security agents and Anambra State Government to come to his rescue after few elements allegedly connived and banished him and his family from the community.
The father of six who was visibly crying while narrating his ordeal said his son was attacked by two claiming to be local vigilante in the village for reasons yet unknown to him.
“Ukwa and Friday security personnel came to my house in the evening and started fighting my son who was outside urinating after they flashed him torchlight, I rushed out to ask them what was the problem they started beating me too.”
According to him, the security men immediately rang the village bell leading to other youths coming out to join in beating and dragging him on the floor.
“They started beating me, my son and my wife. They destroyed all the property in my house, my two motorcycles and other valuables saying that I have been disobeying the rules in the community.”
Mr Onwuegbunem, therefore, appealed to government and security agents to urgently come to his aid by visiting the community to ascertain the true situation of the matter that must have informed their decision in him and his family.
“I have reported the matter three different times to police. Our President General is aware but, I am sure they consulted him before coming to destroy my house and he aligned with them for reasons I don’t know.
“The only crime I committed is because I asked them to leave my land inheritance for me as the only surviving son of my father.”
His wife Mrs Ngozi Onwuegbunem recalled that life had been very unbearable for her and her children since she ran to her father’s village for safety.
“I went to process garri in my husband’s village, some youth came there and said that they don’t want to see me there again, I was confused as I parked my cassava and ran back to my father’s house.”
In an interview, a community leader in the area, Chief Cosmos Okonkwor from Umuokpala village, Amansea, who expressed worry over the development called for peaceful resolution of the matter as it was beginning to impede on the development of the area.
“Honestly, this thing is strange to me, I have tried to call on the Orebe chairman of the village and others to come together and settle this matter to no avail. Whatever government will do please let them come and do it fast for the safety of lives and property.”
Also in an interview, the Chairman of Orebe village, Mr Okechukwu Nwafor-Iga, said the village had certain rules and regulations which had always been violated by Mr Onwuegbunem and his family members.
“The rules and regulations in my village were set even by the same man who has been violating them, all we want is peace and progress in our town. We can’t support evil at all. How can one person at all times be having issues with the entire village? It’s unfair, he is an adult but not doing what is right.”
Mr Nwafor Iga explained that the village had a strong law against the selling of Indian hemp and smoking it in public, but alleged that Mr Onwuegbunem and his family refused to respect the communal order.
Another resident of Orebe village, Amansea, Mrs Charity Arinze, narrated how the said man had been fighting security men and disrespecting constituted authorities by continuing in the selling of drugs and indulging in diabolic activities.
“That man is evil. He wanted to kill two security men just because they asked him and his son, Rapuluchukwu, to stop selling and smoking hemp openly.”
A former Chairman of the village, Mr Ejike Onyekwere and a youth leader Mr Chukwuonso Okafor said, “We heard the voice of a security man screaming inside our brother’s house, so we rushed to rescue them. That was when the youths tried to force the door open and we saw charms and pictures of different people pinned on them with bloodstains before we could search the house, Mr Onwuegbunem and his family had abandoned the security men on the floor and ran away.
“The village did not banish them as he is claiming, rather he is running away from all he had committed against his people. If he comes back today and shows remorse, we will accept him but on the condition that he will abide by the rules of our village which was made for a peaceful coexistence of all of us.”
When contacted to confirm that the matter has been reported three times to the police as well as the extent to which police have waded into the matter, the Police Public Relations Officer of the Anambra state command SP Haruna Mohammed did not respond to several phone calls as at the time of filing this report.
UNIBEN Student Raped, Killed Inside Church In Edo
A 100 level student of the University of Benin, UNIBEN from the department of Microbiology, faculty of Life Sciences, Miss Vera Uwaila Omozuwa, has reportedly been raped and killed inside a church in Edo state.
The 22-year-old victim was said to have been raped on Friday 29th May near Ikpoba Hill in Benin City, at her church, the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).
According to reports gathered, the deceased had gone to the church to read as she prepared for the possible school resumption after months of staying at home as a result of the lockdown order.
The perpetrators were said to have attacked her at the RCCG Ohovbe road branch, raped and smashed her head with a fire extinguisher, leaving her for dead.
Miss Vera was rushed to the University of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH), where she battled for her dear life at the Intensive Care Unit (ICU).
She, however, gave up the ghost Saturday midnight, May 30, following excess loss of blood and deep cuts sustained from the attack.
A family source, who confirmed the development, described the deceased as “an easy-going somebody (sic).” Her remains had been deposited at the morgue.
Nigerians have since taken to Twitter, using #JusticeForUwa, to demand for justice for the fallen student and one of the numerous victims of rape in the country.
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