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How Pressure Made Me Go Into Marriage That Lasted Only 3 Years — CNN Correspondent, Stephanie Busari

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Nigerian-born CNN correspondent, Stephanie Busari has advised young ladies against rushing into marriage, while using her failed marriage as a reference.

Buttressing her point, Stephanie narrated how pressure from her parents and family drove her into a marriage that lasted for three years. According to her, she left her failed marriage with a beautiful daughter and a bag full of regrets.

Her tweet reads; “Ten years ago today I got married. It lasted 3 years and I came away with a beautiful daughter and a heart full of (some) regrets. Does one mark such an auspicious occasion? Or just quietly acknowledge as one of the hopes and dreams that didn’t quite pan out?

Despite all my achievements, I was flying high in my career. I had bought a flat, all before 30, I felt like a failure because I wasn’t married. Parents have their own timeline for your life. You must create and embrace yours and BE HAPPY with your choices.

I got married largely due to pressure. It enveloped me like a cloud. Every time an embossed handwritten envelope thudded through the letter box ‘inviting the pleasure of my parents company.’ I heard my mother’s heavy sigh, my father’s questioning glances.

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10 years later, and I am still so sad at how miserable I was. My ex-husband was not a bad person, but we were just desperately incompatible. Even I was surprised we ended up together! Make sure and be doubly sure and be sure again before you say I do.

These women feel like Mr Right Now is better than Mr Right, as long as they become a Mrs. Please DON’T do it! The sadness of an unhappy marriage and home seeps into your soul. It is crushing and turns you into a shell of who you are”.

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  1. Kelvin Agbogidi

    December 14, 2019 at 12:14 pm

    Hmm… Sorry but no that marriage is for better for worse

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Rita Dominic Hospitalized

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Nollywood actress, Uchenna Nkem Dominic Nwaturuocha, has revealed that she was recently hospitalized over an undisclosed illness.

The 44-year-old actress, Rita who was supposed to be on the panel on Friday at Creative Africa Exchange Conference, holding in Kigali, Rwanda shared the News moments ago on Instagram, adding that she has since recovered.

“Was hospitalised but well now. See you soon in Kigali for #CAX #CAX2020 #CreativeAfricaExchange @caxafrica,” she posted.

She will, however, speak later on her journey in Nollywood as an actress and producer.

The 2012 Africa Movie Academy Award (AMAA) winner will be releasing her new movie, Le Femme Anjola, later this year.

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Was hospitalized but well now. See you soon in Kigali for #CAX #CAX2020 #CreativeAfricaExchange @caxafrica

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P-Square’s Sister, Mary Okoye’s Marriage To Actor Emma Emordi Collapses

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The marriage between Mary Jane Okoye, younger sister to Psquare and Nollywood actor, Emma Emordi has reportedly crashed.

This also comes with stunning allegations that he infected her with STDs.

In a chat conversation between Mary Joy Okoye and another person on social media shared by blogger, Instablog9ja, she revealed that her marriage had collapsed. According to her, Emma Emordi was sleeping around and stealing from her.

It did not end as she went on to reveal that he had infected her with STDs. She also made mention of the time she caught him red handed sleeping with an older lady.

Also seemingly reacting to the claims, Emma Emordi wrote;

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The man or woman you choose to be your partner affects everything in your life: your mental health, your peace of mind, the love inside of you, your happiness, how you get through tragedies, your success, how your children will be raised, and so much more.. choose very wisely…Soon a story will be told to the glory of God almighty… happy weekend my people,” he wrote

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“D**k Feels Better When Is Coming From A Hardworking Man” — Cardi B Says As She Congratulates Husband, Offset

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American rapper Cardi B made quite a statement as she stepped out in Paris in a sheer bodysuit over her bra and pants to support her husband Offset.

The 27-year-old rapper was in the French capital alongside her husband Offset, as they headed to his Laundered Works Corp show during Paris Fashion Week 2020 on Thursday, January 16.

In addition to the sheer bodysuit, Cardi had on a studded face mask. The Bodak Yellow rapper added a big fur coat.

Sharing a photo from the night out to Instagram, Cardi wrote: “Congrats babe on your bomb ass fashion clothing collab with @chazajordan .I am so proud of you ! From filming on two shows ,recording and working on so many other things .The dick feels better when is coming from a hard working man ??.I love you”

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