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How Pressure Made Me Go Into Marriage That Lasted Only 3 Years — CNN Correspondent, Stephanie Busari

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Nigerian-born CNN correspondent, Stephanie Busari has advised young ladies against rushing into marriage, while using her failed marriage as a reference.

Buttressing her point, Stephanie narrated how pressure from her parents and family drove her into a marriage that lasted for three years. According to her, she left her failed marriage with a beautiful daughter and a bag full of regrets.

Her tweet reads; “Ten years ago today I got married. It lasted 3 years and I came away with a beautiful daughter and a heart full of (some) regrets. Does one mark such an auspicious occasion? Or just quietly acknowledge as one of the hopes and dreams that didn’t quite pan out?

Despite all my achievements, I was flying high in my career. I had bought a flat, all before 30, I felt like a failure because I wasn’t married. Parents have their own timeline for your life. You must create and embrace yours and BE HAPPY with your choices.

I got married largely due to pressure. It enveloped me like a cloud. Every time an embossed handwritten envelope thudded through the letter box ‘inviting the pleasure of my parents company.’ I heard my mother’s heavy sigh, my father’s questioning glances.

10 years later, and I am still so sad at how miserable I was. My ex-husband was not a bad person, but we were just desperately incompatible. Even I was surprised we ended up together! Make sure and be doubly sure and be sure again before you say I do.

These women feel like Mr Right Now is better than Mr Right, as long as they become a Mrs. Please DON’T do it! The sadness of an unhappy marriage and home seeps into your soul. It is crushing and turns you into a shell of who you are”.

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  1. Kelvin Agbogidi

    December 14, 2019 at 12:14 pm

    Hmm… Sorry but no that marriage is for better for worse

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PHOTOS: Regina Daniels And Husband, Ned Nwoko, Finally Reveal Their Son’s Face

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Regina Daniels and her billionaire husband, Ned Nwoko, have finally revealed their son, Munir’s face. The couple welcomed their first child together in June this year.

In a video shared on her YouTube page, the couple spoke about their adorable son and who he looks like.

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Naira Marley Pleads Guilty In Court, Fined N100K

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The Lagos State Special Offences (Mobile) Court, Oshodi has fined singer Afeez Fashola and his manager N100, 000 for flouting the ban on interstate travels in June this year.

The singer and his manager had on June 8 this year, travelled from Lagos to Abuja and back to Lagos for a drive-through concert in Abuja. He was arraigned before the court by the state police command today August 6.

A statement from the spokesperson of the state police command, Bala Elkana, said Naira Marley was arraigned alongside his Manager Seyi Awouga on a one-count charge of ”breach of the cessation of movement and interstates travel order made by the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria under Regulation 4(i) of the Lagos State Infectious Disease Emergency Prevention) Regulation No 2 of 2020 and committed an offence punishable under Section 58 Public Health Law, Ch. P16, Laws of Lagos State 2015”

When the charge was read to them, Naira Marley and his manager pleaded guilty and were awarded a fine of one hundred thousand naira each by the presiding Magistrate.

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JUST IN: Naira Marley Docked Over Abuja Concert

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Music superstar Azeez Fashola aka Naira Marley, has been taken to the Lagos State Special Offences Court in Ikeja.

The police filed charges against him for violating COVID-19 directives banning interstate travels put in place to curb the spread of coronavirus.

Naira Marley flew in a chartered plane meant for a Lagos Judge to the Federal Capital Territory for a concert on Saturday, July 13.

The concert at the Jabi Lake Mall elicited public outcries with many who attended breaking protocols at the peak of the coronavirus pandemic.

It was gathered Naira Marley’s arrest was based on orders of The Inspector-General of Police.

Lagos Police spokesman Bala Elkana confirmed the appearance of Naira Marley in court.

He said the musician presented himself at the Command Headquarters on Thursday.

“We are in court as we speak. He will be arraigned for violating the interstate travel order. That is the aspect that concerns Lagos State,” he clarified.

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